To love and be loved, so the saying goes. But what happens when the one you love eventually die? Will you stop weeping for the grave and start looking for someone to love? Or simply moan all of your life to a former lover who will never come back? The answer depends on the person who personally experienced such tragedy. The pain and the misery are inevitable. But one has to go on, have a great life. But how can you forget and completely unleash the trauma? The best answer to give is, to simply fall in love again!

If you think of it, widow dating is not that complicated. One should really know when to start, to stop and get married. Here are the simplest things to consider when dating.

1. Let go and break in. Leave behind any negative feelings and release your hidden tensions. You will be more relieved to dump the sad moments in your life and welcome the good ones.
2. Always look good and appreciate yourself. After looking miserable for a long time, indulge in the spa and pamper yourself. Don’t feel guilty on being pretty! After all, you have missed doing this.
3. Make a list of people to date. Who are the best candidates for your next happily ever after relationship? Well of course, close friends will always know you best. You’ll be surprised to find out that he is just around the corner waiting for the right moment.
4. Engage in activities that interest you most. Where can you possibly find the one? Definitely, you have to dig in and participate in several gatherings that both of you are attracted. Maybe you can find a soul mate in the same spot.
5. Join the widow’s/ widower’s club. There are lots of social sites including this one. Members sites like widowersdatingsite.com and widow.meetup.com. Even in your community, you can find people who are coping with their past and are more likely to date someone like you if given a chance.
6. Stop looking for someone who reminds you of your previous partner. He has passed. You are alive. Everyone is unique and charming. Considering your date’s personality and potentials, you should start realizing his worth and not depending on your previous partners attributes.